Yin and Yang
Today I felt like it was about time I write another post, but it just isn’t as easy as it seems. Emily always comes across such interesting, random internet bits, things that spur her mind off in a million directions.
My life seems very interesting, to me. I could write about my walk through Golden Gate Park, how I mindfully cleaned the apartment, my success at language learning or why The Blind Assassin is speaking to me. But most of these things that I’ve seen, heard or contemplated today seem to be messages meant just for me. (Who knew assassin had four ‘S’es in it? And how the heck to you type ‘S’es anyway?)
When I ran into Wendell Wallach at the Singularity Summit (before I knew who he was). We talked about writing. He told me he was in the midst of writing a book. I told him I was a blogger. He said that he often finds writing excruciating. At the time I thought, “Well it’s not that hard to just spout off a blog post. Put a bit of kitsch along with an intriguing premise, add in some new age speak and voila!” But today, I agree with Wendell. I am desperate for a topic. I even checked out Google Trends, hoping it would spur my mind. Evidently Jodie Sweetin is pregnant, conspiracies abound about a 9/11 mystery plane and NBA player Greg Oden is injured. I don’t really care about any of that.
Today I don’t want to write any kitsch, I have no profundity to put out there and I just don’t feel like producing. I’m in a yin phase it seems. Blog posts are rather yang.
For those of you who want a quick primer on yin and yang, luckily I just happen to have written one. (The more you know, after all.)
Yin and Yang are representations of phenomena in the natural world in the form of opposite forces. They are combined in the yin-yang symbol showing the ideal unity of opposites. Yin symbolizes the feminine, passive, receptive, soft and dark forces. Yang represents masculine, active, creating, hard and bright forces.
Yin and Yang are a way of describing complementary forces in nature and not absolutes. All forces have both yin and yang states and are in constant motion, not static. I find this an especially fruitful way of viewing the world, rather than in a strict, opposing, absolute and immutable dichotomy, such as some views of “good” and “evil.”
You may or may not have noticed from our posts (see the first paragraph of this post too), that Emily tends to be rather yangy and I am rather yiny (is that like a ninny?) Emily says that I should erase this nonsense about ninnies because it’s a term from the 1930’s. Anyway, if I keep this up, she’s going to ban me from the blog… my point is that sometimes we argue because of our tendencies towards one state or the other.
Like Emily pointed out yesterday, balance is important in our actions and within ourselves. Do you tend more towards yin or yang? Maybe you can think of ways to balance out your dominant aspect, or spend time with a friend who tends toward the opposite. For example, I am supportive of Emily’s plans to create anarchy and revolution after we watch V for Vendetta and Emily indulges my thoughtful questioning of cultural displacement after we’ve watched Lost in Translation. Maybe that’s why we get along so well. However, that’s also why Emily hates this whimsical, meandering, blog post and is spitting nickels as she tries to edit it now!